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Research has found that men and women have different strategies when it comes to using apps like Tinder: They only become Sweet want casual sex Reading later once they get their matches. By contrast, women are very selective at first and swipe right a lot less. A study published in the American Sociological Review looked at the hookup experiences of thousands of heterosexual female college students, and just 11 percent of women reported having an orgasm during a hookup with a brand-new male partner.

When women had casual sex with the same guy more than once, though, their odds of orgasm increased—for instance, 34 percent of women reported orgasms when they hooked up with the same partner three or more times. A big part of the reason for the orgasm gap is our sex education gap. Fortunately, there are efforts Sweet want casual sex Reading to help change this. Do men and women really experience casual sex differently?

And how do you feel like society perpetuates that? This double standard leads men and women to think about casual sex very differently: Sweet want casual sex Reading with men, women are more likely to regret past casual sex experiences.

By contrast, men are more likely than women to regret lost opportunities for casual sex.

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In other words, when it comes to casual sex, women regret having had it, and men regret not having done it more. Likewise, there are a lot of men who look back on their casual sex experiences with regret and shame.

The issue here is that casual sex is something that means different things to different people. Some might say that casual sex becomes not-so-casual when Sweet want casual sex Reading happens more than once. If he swipes you too, it lights up like a game, then asks if you want to keep playing. My first Tinder date was with someone I'd seen before on OKCupid — the same faces crop up on all these sites.

He knew all the cool restaurants, the best places and, as he was only in London occasionally, things moved faster than they should have.

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After just a few dates, he booked us a night in a fancy Kensington hotel. I met him at a pub first — liquid courage — and knew the second I saw him that my heart wasn't in it. The connection wasn't there for me. Not a great start. But Tinder is addictive. You find yourself browsing and swiping and playing on. Sweet want casual sex Reading

The possibilities pile up. I'm ashamed to Swee it but I sometimes went on three Sweet want casual sex Reading four dates a week. It could be to a bar around the corner, or somewhere fabulous — Berner's Tavern, the Chiltern Firehouse. Most of the guys I met were looking for sex, rarely were they after a relationship.

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With Tinder, I discovered what it could be to have sex then walk away without a backward glance. Sex didn't have to be wrapped up with commitment, and "will he?

It could just be fun. Sometimes I had nothing in common with the guy but there was a sexual spark.

In "real life", he was the ultimate knob. He didn't fit with my politics, my views, I'd never have introduced him to my friends. In bed, though, he was passionate, eager, energetic.

For a while, we'd hook up every six weeks. But there were a lot of negatives.

It could feel … seedy. Where do you go for sex?

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Sweet want casual sex Reading didn't feel comfortable taking someone back to my place, as he'd then know where I lived, and I live alone. If we went back to his, I'd have no idea what to expect. With "Aldgate East", we had to walk through a pub to get to the bedroom and I swear there was a train going through sez lounge.

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You're trusting people you barely know. After a few dates with "Manchester", I agreed casusl visit his hotel room next time he was in London. I'd always been diligent about practising safe sex, but he had trouble getting in the mood with the condoms and went against my wishes at the last moment.

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The next morning I wrote him an angry text. I've never wannt so violated. Sweet want casual sex Reading often, though, I didn't have sex at all. I generally left home open to the possibility but found, when my date showed up, that I didn't want to see him again, let alone see him naked. There was no spark, or he was dull or gross or just too pushy. One date chased me to the tube trying to shove his tongue down my throat.

Another — who started promisingly — changed after his second Sweet want casual sex Reading, spilling a glass of wine on me without apologising, and cutting me off each time I spoke. It can be harder to walk away when you've met through Tinder. When you're matched, you can spend days — in some cases, weeks, months — exchanging messages, texting Reding working yourselves up, filling in the gaps with your imagination. By the time you meet, you've both invested so much, you've raised your hopes and his.

In some ways Tinder can even work against you Sweet want casual sex Reading a partner. I met one guy who was a likely contender for a boyfriend. We went on five dates without sex, just Reafing kiss and a hug. Then one night, he arrived at my place stinking of booze and likely high on something.