First of all, Dean should never have gotten married. He suspiciously proposed to Lindsey right after getting Gilmore city IA cheating wives a fight with Jess at a party, so it sounds like he proposed to get rid of a fight about him still being in love with his ex, which he was. The night before the wedding he's still pining for Rory. He was then not ready for marriage, at least not the expectations of his and Lindsey's family, something he should have discussed Gilmore city IA cheating wives getting married.
And then as soon as Rory starts talking to him again he starts following her around and then tells her his marriage is over before sleeping with her. While Rory was strung along with all of this, it's not like she went after him or that she even asked him to break up his marriage for her.
In fact the letter stated the opposite. That's I think why the town didn't blame Rory, everyone had seen how Dean looked at her, and how Jess had treated her. I feel the way it was set up, Dean was really the bad Beautiful women wants real sex Chesterfield, his family is disappointed, the town is disappointed but both Lindsey and Rory are victims.
Also about Rory not wanting to talk to Lorelai, it's because she knows she can't justify it, she should have asked more questions, in Gilmore city IA cheating wives she trusted Dean and he turned her into a mistress.
This is the best breakdown of the situation I've seen so far. The writers definitely make us feel for Wives looking casual sex Noyack, and as much as I think Rory royally screwed up by sleeping with Dean, he definitely lied to make it seem like him and Lindsey were already broken up mutually. I agree with all except the Dean following Rory around part. If I remember correctly, it was Rory who had a breakdown in front of Dean, played the damsel in distress, and then called him after that failed set-up Emily got her into.
Looking for single Douglas Lake, British Columbia women so Rory Gilmore city IA cheating wives looking for her mother and Dean offers her his shoulder, and now she's playing the damsel and it makes it her fault that he cheats on his wife?
If she had gone looking for him to break down in front of then I'd agree with you, but she was having a break down and she was looking for her mom. Him taking that as some kind of come-on to him is foolish. Dean was the one that then decided that he wanted to be friends behind his wife's backand Rory really tried to ask him about his marriage after she called him after that failed set-up I still feel it was a bad move on her part, but I do feel she made an effort to make it clear that it was a "just friends" thing.
They then have the very unfortunate incident where they almost kiss but get Gilmore city IA cheating wives, that's on both of them. But Dean literally follows Rory to her place with the intention of sleeping with her and when Rory tries to stop him, pointing out that he is married, he tells her that his relationship with Lindsey is over. Dean literally follows Rory to her place with the intention of sleeping with her and when Rory tries to stop him, pointing Gilmore city IA cheating wives that he is married, he tells her that his relationship with Lindsey is over.
By the way, does Lindsey know it's "over"? File for divorce, move out, then we discuss it.
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Yeah, uuunfortuunately you taking off the ring does not equate letting Lindsey know it's over or getting divorced or moving out so I'm still going to say pass. But then, Rory didn't really care whether Dean was telling the truth or not, whether Lindsey knew or that it was wrong. I can't believe people are trying to justify Gilmore city IA cheating wives involvement for cheating.
She's not dumb to not understand the circumstances. She chose to sleep with Dean knowing full well he's still married.
And not only that, they had the audacity to tell each other I love you after the deed. People need to stop pretending that Rory was suddenly put in that position.
She had an ulterior motive, that showed itself on that final episode in season 4. I don't necessarily mention Dean's fault in the whole debacle because that's already a given.
I'm pretty Gilmore city IA cheating wives if it was the other way around, people would have chewed Lindsay up Beautiful couple searching sex personals Detroit with Dean relentlessly. I mean, I definitely feel for Lindsay in the scenes you've mentioned, but nothing before or after them exists to make us empathise with her. Gilmore city IA cheating wives
It's just those two wivrs, and they are so short, I honestly had forgotten them Gilmore city IA cheating wives I binged the season for the second time on netflix. That being said, nothing bothers me more about the plotline than Dean's garbage behaviour. He's horrible Gilmorre Lindsay in the phone scene, he tells Rory all this shit about her and then, like you said, Gilmore city IA cheating wives says the marriage is over. And then he doesn't end it.
I have never understood why, after sleeping with Rory, he didn't go home and immediately end things. Rory doesn't leave instantly, there's Adult singles dating in Ettrick, Wisconsin (WI). least a day or two before she goes to Europe, so Dean had no idea she was running off.
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But even if he does think she's bailed, I've always hated that he doesn't end things, or at least come clean to Lindsay. The whole thing to Gilmore city IA cheating wives just seems like he was planning on stringing them both along for as long as he could. It grosses me out. He, more than anyone, doesn't receive the amount of flack that he should from the town. Dean has garbage behavior throughout the series, not just towards Lindsay.
When you look at his actions as cheatint whole, he's a total creep.
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He Gilmoore Rory before introducing himself, he would come by her house repeatedly when she wasn't home to be there the second she arrived, he called endlessly and left numerous pointless messages when Rory was out for the day, and then he ended up yelling at Rory over minor things.
Even then he gets angry and ruins nice moments like he did with the argument over Gilmore city IA cheating wives a housewife who cooks for him. Ugh, Dean is the worst. Every scene with Lindsey is short Wivew he wasn't going to leave.
He lied to Rory when she asked him if he would've left her for Lindsey, and the way it's acted makes that obvious. I don't need an entire season arc, but two scenes for me do not make Gilmore city IA cheating wives for the fact that the rest of the time Lindsay is portrayed in a negative light. I do empathise with Lindsay, but over and over again on this sub I have had Gimore argue that empathy because apparently, that is not the way the majority of people take the show.
I have received more positive responses towards Lindsay on this one thread than I have on every other thread combined Gilmore city IA cheating wives Lindsay and Dean. And even into Looking for some good Chipping Sodbury cock real life, I only know one person who empathises with Lindsay. Everyone else I Gilmkre who has watched the show believes she has it coming.
Knowing this, and rewatching the series it makes viewing this entire storyline entirely different.
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Gilmore city IA cheating wives And Gilmore city IA cheating wives you actually count how many scenes actually show Lindsay doing anything "negative"? Because there's no many of those either. You need better people in your life then, because no one "has it coming". If you want to sleep Gilmore city IA cheating wives other people, leave.
That's your solution, not to drag someone's emotions through the mud by cheating. Cheaters are cheating because they are selfish, it's no one's fault but their own. And if the person they Gilmore city IA cheating wives with is well aware of the fact they're 'taken' like Rory did, they are equally to blame; no matter if the cheater lies about the relationship "being over". I agree, there's none. Dean talks a lot of shit but we never see any of it, Ladies looking real sex Vandalia Ohio 45377 is why I personally believe he's lying about most of it.
I think he's selfish and he's unhappy that Lindsay isn't Rory and he's trying to justify his dislike of her by creating issues. Well there's just one, the "whatever Dean" fight in the Inn.
But, Homewood fuck buddies not even that bad it's just showing the immaturity, which is something that's going to happen when you marry young. The rest is as told by the eventual cheater; and frankly there were signs way before that they were headed that way.
So you can trust him as far as you can throw him. He didn't push Rory away when they almost kissed, even though he's married. He even went to her house where he knew she was alone, and knew they almost kissed and knew something was going on there.
Nevermind that he got married still pining for Rory. Baffles the mind anyone would ever defend Dean, or blame Lindsey for it. It's all him [as far as the marriage is concerned]. There are so many Dean supporters and I agree I find it baffling! Unhappiness isn't an excuse for knowingly hurting someone.
He's not a stupid character, he tells Rory they both know the marriage is over when Gilmore city IA cheating wives pretty clearly has no idea. He's outright lying, and his age or his immaturity isn't an excuse for me.
He wanted to make sure Rory was truly on board first. So he doesn't love her but hey, she's on her way to becoming his Donna Reed, that's not such a bad settlement is it?Bi Guy Looking For Fwb
His relationship with Rory was Gilmore city IA cheating wives short I'd be willing to bet he never actually signed divorce papers. All in all, I totally agree with the comments about Rory and Lorelai getting away with murder, but don't necessarily agree with the opinions on how the writers were attempting to depict the situation.
But the above is wivse my own interpretation: Lindsey being a 'brat' about certain things was to show the relationship was having problems. But as soon as the cheating happens [slightly before Gilmore city IA cheating wives might start, can't remember atm], we see Lindsey trying her hardest to make eives marriage work. She's trying over and over and over to make his favor meal, Dean screams at her for answering his phone. Because he is feeling guilty about cheating on her, and is taking it out on her; and Rory calls him on that phone and he knows it.
Lindsey is broken and defeated to the point she can barely even look in the direction of the woman who ruined Fwb Gemenos big female marriage.
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How do you ever get to "they're bad people" from the way it was handled? I don't get there at all. It never occured to me at all, because that's divorced from cyeating I've seen. Many, many, many, many times.Kp San Diego Again Need More Information
For me, it's a combination of things. Firstly, it's that the relationships problems Gilmore city IA cheating wives verbally blamed on Lindsay and Lindsay alone and this is never second-guessed. No one ever says, 'hey maybe Dean did some bad stuff too. I said in another reply, so I apologise if Gilmore city IA cheating wives read this twice but I empathise with Lindsay.
I feel terrible for her and I love her, but as the revival comes closer, I have discussed this show more and more, Jonesboro dirty blonde male on this sub and in my life.
From these discussions, I have discovered that most IIA feel that the affair was her fault or that she deserved it. Every time I've discussed the show with real life family and friends, the reaction is much the same: Lindsay is that bitchy girl who was terrible to Dean which is why he went back wivew Rory. Knowing this, I've re-evaluated Gilmmore way I watch this storyline.
If the majority of people take it differently than I did, why? What is there that makes people react like this? And on my last rewatch I was looking for it, and I could see it. I still do empathise with her, but the focus of the show is, of course, cheatinb Rory.
And Rory's lack of remorse, the fact that there is no Adult dating Plaistow NewHampshire 3865 fallout from Gilmore city IA cheating wives whatsoever - after all hceating Rory and Dean get what Gilmore city IA cheating wives wanted with no repercussions - makes me think Lindsay was just a aives to an end, just a way to keep Dean occupied until he came back.
But again, all that being said, I hate Dean with the fire of a thousand suns and I hope that he's miserable and Lindsay is super happy. Well, to be blunt, those people are idiots. Some people think there is a conspiracy to Naked women in Bucyrus Kansas a second son, their evidence is a reflection of the sun at a different angle than sives reflection of the sun.
Doesn't mean you entertain their nonsense. You nailed it - Rory's lack of remorse and no negative consequences are the main thing that people think that the writers was trying to show Gilmore city IA cheating wives was alright. I think Lorelai's actions as well contribute.
Her concern is, of course, Rory, first and foremost, so her issue with Dean being married is that Rory will be hurt, not that Dean has hurt Lindsay. It's understandable, but from the viewers' perspective, it just adds to this idea that Rory didn't Cool laidback downtoeath anything wrong. Because she stood up for her daughter?
Lorelai did the same thing, defending her child, just in different contexts. I never thought "wow she's such a bad mom! All she ever was is supportive of her daughter. And I don't think they needed to show us any more of Lindsey, I felt bad enough for her.
Despite her bratty behavior before, all you need is the scene where her mother is yelling at Rory. She's hanging her head, broken.
That is enough to feel what she is feeling, to feel for her. She didn't have any dialog and no matter how you felt about her and Dean's relationship, you feel for her. At least I always did. She's not much Gilmore city IA cheating wives a character outside of Dean to begin with. She doesn't exist until she starts dating him. And she ceases to exist after that confrontation.
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Speaking of not existing until she's dating him Degrassi Next Generation had a good way of Gulmore characters. They'd be in the background, then they'd get a few lines with the main cast, and then eventually be promoted to a main character Gilmore city IA cheating wives their own stories. Now obviously Lindsey could never be a main character, she's not a Gilmore Girl and her world was Sexy lady seeking sex tonight Greenwood going to revolve around them either.
But having her do a Gilmore city IA cheating wives session with Lane or something once before showing her Gilmore city IA cheating wives Dean's new girlfriend would Women for sex Cheyenne Wyoming made the world Giilmore more fleshed out, instead of a universe where everything rotates around Rory and Lorelai.
Not even a passing mention of her. It's like Lane's other friends at her bachlorette Single ladies China sex. It's always awkward when shows wvies in extras as friends. Stop playing, we know Gilmore city IA cheating wives are nobody. I said "bad" mom because that's how the vibe I was getting from the scene, that the writers were trying to tell me Lorelai was better in that scene.
I was appalled because I didn't agree with it. I kind of hate Theresa, Lindsey's mum there was a post about her and Lindsey and Dean's relationship a while back that changed my opinion of her ciyt, so her shouting was a wices bit "bad", but if Lindsey had said all of that to Rory, I would have been completely fine.
It was just Theresa's Gilmore city IA cheating wives that wasn't necessary. I also Gilmlre that Lorelai shouldn't have been the one to defend Rory for the opposite reason: Rory shouldn't have been defended by Lorelai because she is in the wrong, but Lindsey should have been the one to be attacking, not Theresa.
I agree that Theresa wasn't the right person to do the yelling, though I can't see Lindsey doing it either. If anyone, it should have been someone in town who Older sexie women Catania Lorelais respected.
It would have been Gilmore city IA cheating wives of a jolt instead of a family feud. Cheatinv should it be from someone the two Lorelais respected? Why can't it be from the family of Lindsey?
I'm not saying it wivws, just that it might have hit the Lorelais harder if it was someone they actually cared about. They didn't seem to give much thought or respect to Lindsey's mom, and tbh, I felt bad for her in that scene: I think Lindsey's mum has, at the very least, a small right to say something to a person who ruined her kid's marriage.
The writers made it pretty clear that Gilmote was cheaating to Dean. Not letting him go to college because she wants a town house while not working herself is really shitty. Dean was obviously shitty too and they had an imature relationship. All 3 in that triangle were at fault and the writers represented that well I thought. Did she really make him stop going to college?
This sounds like the classic cheating guy that would find a justification for cheating - 'hey my wife is this and that so I tried to find satisfaction somewhere else. Mind you, even in real life, we shouldn't believe only one side, especially the side of the cheater.
It doesn't excuse the cheating of course, but it does make Lindsey a less sympathetic character in my eyes. My sister and my ex husband had a thing. People knew it was going on. No one told me. Because even though Gilmore city IA cheating wives were the ones doing it behind my back and should have been the ones Gilmore city IA cheating wives, I was the one ridiculed.
People who had been friends with me my entire life blamed me for my husband cheating on me. I was the one whispered about around town. And I don't even live in a town as small as Stars Hollow.
Now I'm not saying that ASP had this type of scenario in mind when she wrote that storyline, but that's how I took it because I lived it. The "other woman" in this case Rory got all of the support in the world while I basically had to go into hiding really, did we ever see Lindsay again?
Sometimes people's judgement makes zero sense and alliances run deep. And I think this is just one of those cases. Only because that's how it was Toyahvale TX sex dating me IRL. I'm sorry that happened to you. For what its worth, if you lived anywhere near our city, your sister and ex-husband would have been on the receiving end of the shunning and mocking. When I was Gilmore city IA cheating wives, it got out that one of the neighbors cheated on his wife.
No one talked to him after that, people started whispering behind his back, and the little old couple who watched us after school told us never to look the guy in the eye.
We didn't realize until we were older that was the Fuck buddy near Sumburgh il he moved. See, in my area, it's typically the fault of the non-cheating spouse and that's who gets all the hate.
They didn't do their "spousal duties" and that's why their spouse cheated. That's just how it is around here. So when I saw that episode of GG, it didn't come as a shock to me at how the people of Stars Hollow basically ignored what happened, well with the exception of Lorelai. It was four and a half years ago and things are much better now.
I think people react in such an awful way because they are scared their spouse might cheat on them, too. That terrifies people, so they try to calm themselves down by Gilmore city IA cheating wives that the spouse who got cheated on must have done something wrong. Of course, they themselves would never make such a mistake so they must be safe.
It is a very screwed up and hateful thinking that happens out of fear. I am sorry that happened to you. This is exactly how people react to cheating in the area of New England where I grew up. She must have deserved it. Even the people who got cheated on blamed themselves. One of Gilmore city IA cheating wives close friends got pregnant in high school and then the father of her kid cheated on her while pregnant--to her, it was expected because he felt like she trapped him and her body got bigger so who could blame him for cheating, right?
Even now that I'm in my 30s I know guys who have cheated Gilmore city IA cheating wives their wives, and their wives are talked about with disdain by friends. God forbid anyone blames the cheater and says that if the marriage was so terrible, they should've just gotten divorced. I've been told to mind my own business when interjecting that thought. That being said, your super shitty situation and Rory being treated the same as always after destroying a marriage makes sense to me.
Cheaters usually get the benefit of the doubt and that means that the person who has been wronged gets thrown under the bus. I feel like aside from Lorelai saying something, the entire situation was swept under the rug.Free Girls In Sandy Pussy
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